Sunday, February 28, 2010

Week 3 Blog #3: Paying It Forward!


Paying it Forward!

What are you doing to lend a helping hand? Oftentimes in our lives we come to a stand still, a time in our lives when we cannot do something without the kindness and help of others. This is when paying it forward really helps!

Throughout our lives we will sometimes experience down falls that are out of our control. A flat tire, locking your keys in your car, or forgetting your wallet at home...all times when we might need the assistance of others. Whether it be to borrow someone's cell phone to call a locksmith, or to borrow five bucks for a meal, these are times when we should follow the rule of "paying it forward."

Sometimes something as simple as asking for what you want can get you the exact help you are looking for. As I read through chapter 7 in the book "Art of Possibility," I learned that sometimes in order to persuade somebody to help others without agenda, you need to get their interest, or "light a spark" so to speak. And, as Ben Zander's father (Walter) said, "Some things are better done in person!" Sometimes, if there is something you need or want, it is better to just march right up to the person and ask. Oftentimes, the answer will be yes, and the worst they can say is no.

Then, the most important thing to remember after someone has helped you is to "Treat others the way you would want to be treated," and pay forward that kindness. If we all 'payed it forward' can imagine what a great world this would be to live in!

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